The significance of trust is that it allows the parties involved in the
relationship to indicate how they feel, what they behave, and where they
disagree without fear of contradiction or reprisal(報(bào)復(fù)). Trusting relationship
encourage people to disclose their plans and perceptions without hurting them
selves or others. Hurt, whether real or imagined, is one of the most harmful
consequences of personal relationships with other human beings. In situations
which you feel that the other person has the power and intent to hurt you, trust
diminishes quickly. Thus a climate of distrust appears in your relations with
others. Conversely, if I can say whatever comes to my mind without getting hurt,
a climate of trust pervades the relationship. Trust is a perceptual phenomenon
that evolves from our experiences with others. If trusting were so easy, we
would not need to make such a point of its importance in human relationships. To
say that a person should trust others is to diminish the difficulty of producing
trust. In mutual relationships, both parties must be have toward one another in
trusting ways. Even though it hurts in the pit of the stomach(心窩), you must
trust the other person and encourage him or her to say those things that demand
a trusting response. No one likes to get hurt and few like to hurt others,
especially not those others who are close to us in person-to-person
relationships. We avoid expressing our true feelings lest we become the target
of a revenging attack from the other person. If I indicate that I do not
appreciate having you smoke in my car, I may love you as a friend or I may
become the subject of ridicule for allowing little things like that to bother
me. If that happens, I will be less open and less trusting of you the next
time.
1. The significance of trues lies in the fact that _____.
[A] trust is not easy to reach between human beings
[B] trust allows people to say whatever comes to their minds
[C] one likes to get hurt
[D] few like to trust others
2. What will not happen if a person feeds he will be hurt by the other?
[A] Trust diminishes quickly.
[B] He will disclose his plans and perceptions.
[C] A climate of distrust pervades the relationship?
[D] One of the most harmful consequences of personal relationships with others appear.
3. Trust is a phenomenon that _____.
[A] results from our expericences with others
[B] comes from our perceptions
[C] may trust in the pit of the stomach
[D] none of the above
4. People avoid expressing their true feelings because _____.
[A] they become the target of revenging attack from others
[B] they are not so open and trusting others
[C] they do not want to become the target of revenging attack from others
[D] they do not want to lose friends
5. Implied but not stated _____.
[A] People usually do not like to trust those who are close to us
[B] People will usually get reprisal or ridicule for their trust
[C] If trust has been established,it will never disappear
[D] The negative response will usually result in the diminishing of trusting between persons
參考答案:B B A C D
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